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So, if you are stuck in a cycle of hnest dating, then read on! One of these problems might just apply to you Some people get addicted to the thrill of the chase. The forbidden fruit. The "playing hard to get".

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They lust for those people who pay them no attentionare aloof, disinterested, or even mean. Wanting what we cannot have is a common mental quirk that we all possess. Within the social influence research, this is called "Scarcity" Cialdini, Essentially, we are all hard-wired to believe things that are difficult to obtain, or rare, are also valuable and desirable.

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However, this is not always the case. Sometimes the rare and expensive is truly valuable Some people keep dating the wrong kind of guy or gal because they fall for the scarcity trap.

They keep chasing what they cannot. Sometimes this is an ego thing "I'm going to show him how good I am!

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Other times, it is a low self-esteem thing "what do I have to do to get her to love me? In either case, however, they mistake this partner's disinterest and scarcity for actual value. The solution - stop the chase. Realize that just because something is hard to fr, doesn't mean it is worth the effort. No one is worth running.

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As a result, they find ways to protect their egos and self-esteem. They find ways of coping with the rejection, disappointments, and frustrations of finding love. Unfortunately, some of those ways are better than. There are two common ways people protect sweet housewives seeking sex Coffs Harbour egos in these situations by creating biases that blind. On one hand, they may expect very little of lookinb and make excuses for failures before they even happen.

This is called Self-Handicapping Tice, On the other hand, they may expect very little of others and make themselves feel superior by looking down at. Both of these biases lead to bad dating. Either the dater expects to fail, or they expect the other person to be awful. Neither of these biases allows them to truly "see" a good partner - or have the motivation to get.

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So, such a biased individual either "settles for less" or stays alone and grumpy. The solution - getting over the past and learning to see clearly. Not everybody out there is a jerk, no matter what has happened in the past.

In fact, most people are decent and looking for love. Rather than expecting the worst, it is more productive to look for what is different and better. That is the only way to find it!

Where is Love? How Do You Find Love? For most people, dating is a process of trial and error. They learn the skills honet socialize. They go out and meet people. They date a few folks or.

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They might not look hard. They might not build themselves up to be better people and more valuable partners. Instead, they may believe someone will simply be their "soul mate" and "love them exactly as they are".

They can also be passive in their search for love, simply taking whoever comes into their lives and makes them feel attraction. In the end, they can have little control over the love in their lives, may make a lot of bad choices from being swept away by emotion, and then get repeatedly disappointed when their lovers are not the perfect soul mate after all.

The solution - looking looking for a honest good man to date lookinng good partner, not a perfect one. There are simply better and worse partners out.

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Some are more fit for a relationship than. There is not, however, a "perfect and unique fit" for each of us.

The best that can be hoped for is finding a reasonably-compatible person, who will be willing to cooperate, and working with them to create a mutually-satisfying exchange. Yes, this is far less romantic Tall females, dating is a process.

But, beyond the feelings, you are also "picking" a hoenst person, who will work with you as a partner, for mutual satisfaction. Therefore, dating does become something of a job interview Many just an ordinary person, however, go into dating without any clear logic or goals. They lead with their feelings only and then wonder why they don't get anywhere! Sure, there is something to loiking said for "enjoying the journey".

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Without one, they tend to drive in circles and, not surprisingly, find themselves with the same partners time after time. The solution - figuring out what is desired and where to get it.

Create a rough "job description" for a good partner. Figure out where that type of person can be. Look for those characteristics and test people on. Continue to enjoy dating - but don't forget the end goal either!

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We meet the needs of others - and they meet our needs. Give and take Healthy and satisfying relationships involve roughly equal trades. Both people are happy. Neither feels cheated.

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However, some people don't pick such balanced relationships. Some repeatedly sell themselves short, giving way more than they.

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In the end, these people often feel cheated, unappreciated, and used. Others repeatedly over-estimate their worth, asking for too.

They too end up feeling frustrated, when no one will meet their unrealistic expectations. Thus, both under-valuing and over-valuing one's self leads to repeated problems in love.

The solution - honest self-appraisal. It is important for people to know the worth of their contributions in a relationship, as well as the worth of what they desire in return. The two should be roughly equal.

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